~ LRS Puruolte
Tulai khawvel ah pawngsuol/nunrawngna pawngsuol (rape/sex violence) leia khawtlang le sungkuo buoina a tam sawt nuom em em a. Sawrkar khawma zuk thaw dan rak a hriet naw chu ni ngei a tih. Hi thil hi a tlung inzawm deu zut zing a. Khawvel hin pawngsuol a hmelhrietna hi a sawt ta hle. Pawngsuol dit naw a lamhraw le lungawinawna hmun hran hran ah inlangtir ni hlak de sienla khawm, hi kawng a suolna hin kiem tieng a pan tak tak thei chuong der nawh a, a pung tiel tiel tho lem niin an lang.
Hi chungchang a hin inselna (debate) nasa tak tak nei a lo ni hiel rawp ta hlak a. Amiruokchu, an thil hmusuok chieng em em el chu, “suktlawm thei a ni nawh”, ti hih a ni tawp el a nih! Rawtna an siem suok chu, “pawngsuoltu chu a tilmu at thlak (pei hawn) ding tih a nih. Pawngsuoltu a intum ringawt khawm nisienla, hi rawtna ang hin a chungah dan kengkaw nisien”, ti a nih. Chu chun umzie a nei tak tak thei chuong a ringum nawh, ti an hmusuok lawk nghal ang reng lawi bawk si!
Hienglai zing hin pawngsuol chungchanga ei lungril a thil um hi ei siem that phawt a ngai a nih, ti hi ngaidan um chu a nih. Nuhmei tam tak hai chun pawngsuol hi tharum thawna sul a nih, sex ti lo a chun (rape is a crime of violence, not sex) ti ngaidan an nei a. Sienkhawm, hi hih ngaidan fumfe nei lo niin hril a ni tho tho. Pawngsuolna hi sex hmang chakna leia hung um a ni a, hieng tiengpang ngaituo lo tading chun pawngsuol hi a tlung ngai zen zen nawh ni a hril a nih.
Mi thenkhat chun rannung le ramsa hai lai pawngsuol a um ve nawh an ti hlak a, a san chu sex chungchang ah sielethahrietna an nei naw lei niin an ngai. Chuonglaizing chun, mihriem chun sielethahrietna ei nei leiin pawngsuolna hi theida a um a, ei dit naw a, ei khawtlang a hin ei pawmnaw hulhuol el a nih tak.
A iengpo khawm lo nisien, tulai hin India ram hmun tum tum le eini lai ngei khawm pawngsuol tuok nuhmei an tam sawt nuom tah hle el! Nuhmei chau ni lovin pasal naupang chenin hmun thenkhat a lem chu hiengang tuok suol hi an lo tuok ta hlak bawk! Mitin ei fimkhur nawk zuol a, hi chungchang a hin Dan (Law/Indian Penal Code) iengang am a um a, ti ei hriet a pawimaw ta hle. Kumtlinglo le Thalai hai lai a hluor zuol bik a. Chuleiin, Mitin le nu-le-pa hai ei fimkhur nawk zuol a ngai ta hle.
Pawngsuol chu India ram dan-in ieng ti’n am a mi hril a? Hremna dan a um am?: Section 376 of Indian Penal Code (IPC) a ei hmu thei chu, mi tukhawm nuhmei pawngsuol (rape) chu damsung lungin intang an naw khawma kum 10 (sawm) chen intang bakah pawisa in chawi (fine) tir thei a nih. Section 375 of IPC a ei hmu angin a hnuoia kawng 6 (ruk) laia pakhat tak chauh khawm nisien, hmanga pasalin nuhmei a pawl/a pawl tum a ni phawt chun PAWNGSUOL (RAPE) a ngai a nih:
1. A nuom naw sasa a a pawllui a ni chun
2. A remtina khawm nilova a pawllui chun
3. A remtina khawm lo ni ta ang sien, kha a remtina tak kha thi/na tuor inlauna lei/a ngainat miin natuor an lau leia lo ni chun
4. A remtina khawm nisien, pasalin a pasal an nawh ti a hriet a, nuhmei chun pasal chu a pasal ngei ni a a hriet lei a remti a ni chun
5. A remtina khawm nisien pasal-in inruithei thil/sielethahrietna sukkhawhlo thei thil a pek leia nikhawhrelo le inrui a a um laia a remti pek a ni chun
6. A remtina khawm nisien ama chu Kum 16 neka naupang a ni chun. (Manipur a chun Kum 14). Amiruokchu, nuhmei kha a nuhmei a nih a, kum 15 chungtieng a ni bakah a nuhmeiin a remti le nuomna lei a ni chun ‘pawngsuol’ (Rape) a tiem an nawh. (Manipur a chun Kum 13).
Chun, mani nuhmeihai khawm nisien an nuomnaw sasa a pawllui a ni phawt phawt chun “pawngsuol” (Rape) a ni tho. Chun, pawngsuol hei ti hin a hun sung sawt le sawt naw an ang vawng a, a lut le lut naw thu an nawh a, lut chie naw sienkhawm pasal zamaw khan nuhmei zamaw a tawk met phawt chun Pawngsuol/Rape a nih.
Chun, Pawngsuol/Rape tlinglo a inlang le mi tamtak ngai a pawngsuol a ngailo, tumna (Attemp to rape) a ni ta hrim hrim chun Pawngsuol/Rape hremna dan a chunga ei ziek chanve a hrem ding a nih. Chun, Tumna/Attempt tlinglo khawm nuhmei nina suk hmingsie/suk muolphona (Outrage to modesty of women) a ni phawt phawt chun Section 354 of IPC dungzui a Kum 2 chen Lungin a intang le sum inchawi (fine) tir thei a nih a, a zat ding ruok chu Judge thutlukna ah an nghat thung. Hi hin nuhmei mawinaw taka biek, sai, khekkhum nuomna le a dang dang hai a huom sa vawng. Mawlna leiin mi tamtakin nuhmeihai chungah hiengang thil hi ei ching rawp hlak. Bansan nghal hmak chi a nih.
Inruina lei suonlam hi Dan in a pawm am?: Mithenkhat chun nuhmei an suollui/pawi an tawkin “Ka’nrui lei a nih” ti hi suonlam a ni rawp hlak a. Zu/damdawi amanih an hei inrui hin iengkim thaw thieng/thiemchang theina ding remchanga hmang thei ding ah an ngai hlak. Chuchu, a lo ni der nawh. Section 85 of IPC a ei hmu thei chu, inrui lai (at the time of doing it, is by reason of intoxication) a thilthaw a ni vei chun a thilthaw kha thu tling ah ngai a ni naw hrim a, sielethahrietna inhmang rawt khawp (incapable of knowing the nature of the act, or that he is doing what is either wrong or contrary to law) an ni chun. Amiruokchu, suk inruitu (Zu. Damdawi, a dang dang) kha ama nuom thu le hrietna nilo a in dawn/fak tir a ni ding a nih. (The thing which intoxicated him was administered to him without his knowledge or against his will) ti a nih. Hiengang hi Dan a lo nisi leiin, “Inrui lei” ti hi suonlam a hmang hih thil harsa le thil theilo tluk a nih. Section 85 of IPC in a mi hril nawk chu, “Inrui” hi Politics, Thlarau, Motor inrui a huom nawh. A suk inruitu kha Zu, Damdawi (Drugs), a dang dang a ni ding a nih.
Entirna’n- Mr. Mawla hi a tulna leiin Doctor-in damdawi an lo inchaw (Prescribe) ang takin a fak a/a lo hriet suol pal hlau leiin Doctor ti naw angin a lo fak pal a/ a nuom thu nilovin midangin inruithei thil an lo in fak tir/dawn lui tir a/a hriet lovin a fak/dawn ding ah an lo pawl a. Mr. Mawla chun sielethahrietna in hmang khawpin lo mumal lovin an rui el tah a. Chulaitak chun a hmangai em em el a nau neisun/midang theidana a nei derlo a lo sukhlum/pawi a lo tawk el a. Hi thil a hin chu Mr. Mawla hi Dan-in a ngaidam thei chau a nih. Amiruokchu, Mr. Mawla khan ama nuomthu/inruithei a nih ti a hriet zing sain a lo fak/dawn a ni chun iengang ngirhmuna um khawm nisien a thilthaw suol kha Dan-in a ngaidam thei nawh. (Hi hih hriet zing ding a nih).
In Pawngsuolna remchang lakah him thei dan ding ieng am a um a?:
1. Pasal hmel hrietlo lakah fimkhur ding. A fala umpui lek lem chu thaw derlo ding a nih. Ei hmelhriet an ni leiin an ringumin an lungril a thienghlim ding a ngai el ding an naw bawk.
2. Thuomhnaw inlang sexy taluo hak ngailo hi a him. Thuomhnaw hak tam tak hi chu pasal lungril thuoisuol a, ngaituona la peng thei an nih rawp hlak. Umna hmun I zir a in thuom dan hriet a pawimaw tak zet.
3. Inzin suokna dingah nuhmeihai tadi’n kekawr tluon inlang pawnlang le lerlo bun rawp a tha. Taksa pienzie inlang/suklang rak khawp a inthuom le inchei ngai ding an nawh.
4. Ram/hmun thenkhat haiah chun nuhmei sinthaw a suok an tam a, mani invengna (self defence) a di’n hmangruo iengamani an kawl tlangpui hlak. Hi hi ei entawn a lo ni naw khawmin a thei hram chun lungril nei ran a um a tha.
5. Eini tlangmi hai hi zan programme nei uor tak el ei nih a. Chuleiin, nuhmei hai tadi’n mani chauh a suok lo a him tak. Fimkhur taka fena ding izir a kawppui/fepui nei a tha.
6. Nu-le-pa’n ei naupa/naunu hai zanah khawm, sunah khawm an phak chin hriet a pawimaw. An umna chin ei hriet naw a nih chun an chungah ieng am a tlung ti chenin ei hriet nawh ti na a nih.
7. Film thalo lakah inthlierfihlim a tha ei ti ruolruolin film hai hi inzirtirna dinga ei hmang thei chun a pawimaw ve hle tho bawk.
8. Inruithei, Mobile phone, Computer le Internet (Social Networking…) hmang suolna leia ra suok khawm a tam tah hle. Chuleiin, Nu-le-pa’n mani nauhai Biekin an in khawm/Sunday skul an kai lei el a ngai suk tha rak ding an chuong nawh. An thil tlai/them kha check pek rawp hlak ding a nih. Sungkuo kim a Mobile phone nei khawm hi a tul kher am? Ieng am a ra suok thei ding (?) ti ngaituo a hun ta hle.
9. Tisa chakna suksuok thei music, thu-le-hla ngaithlak rawn, lekhabu pawrche tiem rawn le milim pawrche en rawnna lakah mitin insukfihlim thei dan umsun chu hieng hai hi ngaisaklo le ditlo le tawklo hi a ni tak el awm. A him thlak tak bawk.
10. Mihriem ser le ser a inpawlna lo khawm sex chi tum tum a um! Thlalak/milim pawche en, Infawp, Inkuo, inthem, intuoi, inzut, tawngkam, phone text message, internet/social networking, facebook… Sex hi chi hran hran laiah hiengang khawm hi mithiem suisuoktu hai chun an tiem sa vawng a nih. Fimkhurna ding a tam ngei el… Tisa chakna suksuok thei an lo ni vawng si nghal a.
11. Vairam a um nuhmei sinthawna a inthawka zan sawt hnung a in tieng inlawi hlak hai khawm motor chuonglai zingin an khat tawk a phakna chin chin, inzing ut a driver le motor a chuong dang hai hriet ding ngei a phone a mi hril a tha. Hi hin hiengang tuoksuol theina lakah nasatakin a san him thei. Mi biek tehlem khawm insir a, phakna le tlungna hmun hril hin vairama in pawngsuolna nuhmei zan sawt tak tak hnung a, in inlawi hlak le taxi hire fawm a in lawn rawp tading chun a him thlak vieu a nih ti hriet tlat ding a nih.
Nuhmei lakah nunrawngna pawngsuol chungchang a hriet ding pawimaw zuol: A report hnung le Doctor-in medical examination a nei hnungah, police-in tul a ti chun a thuomhnaw hak lai chu thlakin an man tir ding a nih.
Pawngsuol thubuoi a chun a tuortu nuhmei kikawrte, pawngsuol a ni laia a bun kha thil pawimaw tak a nih. A pawimaw leiin police ha’n an man a, court ah an thawn hlak. A tuortu kekawrte a inthawka thil hmusuok thei le hriet thei tlangpuihai chu hienghai hi an nih:
1. Nuhmei-in a nuomnaw sa, nasa taka an tal, a tha hratnain a tlin naw leia, thawluina hmanga kekawrte chu keithlak le hlip pek a ni hlak leiin a tler hlak. A tler chun a nuhmeinu nuomna le phalna thang lova hlip a nih, ti an entir.
2. Kekawrte ah chun pasal baw a kai el thei a.A lo kai a ni chun, a pawngsuoltuin a pawngsuol laiin amani a pawl laiin amani a suk kai a ni thei a tih ti an entir bawk. Hi chungchang thuah, police ringawtin kekawrte a thil kai kha pasal baw ani le ni naw an hril thei nawh. Chu kekawrte chu an man hnung ah pasal baw a ni le ni naw enfel dingin doctor kuomah an thawn hlak. Chuchu dan ang taka inhekna dinga pawimaw a nih.
3. Kekawrte-ah chun thisen a kai a nih chun, a tuortu nuhmei chun a zamaw sungah amani, a puotieng amani hliem a tuor a nih ti an entir thei. Thenkhata chun thlatin thi nei leia kai khawm a ni thei bawk.
A chunga ei hrilhai khi an hmang nawna dingin police kuoma report pek le doctor a exam hmain kekawrte chu sawp lo ding a nih. Pawngsuol tuok hun laia thuomhnaw hai hrim hrim sawp, denghawn, rawhmang le sukhmang ding an nawh. Case siem tum si chun a mihriem khawm doctor en hma chu insil-insawp lo ding a nih. Pang a thil kawp hai hrim hrim kha sukchiengtu a ni hlak si a.
Pawngsuol thubuoi a chun a tuortu zamaw le thil danghai doctor-in medical examination an nei hlak hi thil pawimaw em em a nih. Chuleiin, doctor tukhawm medical examination pawngsuol thubuoia neituhai reng rengin, a awlsam zawngin thil an thaw mei mei ding a ni naw a, fimkhur le uluk takin a tul dan azirin Laboratory, X-Ray le tul dang dang hmangin an thaw hlak ding a nih.
Pawngsuol tuortu zamaw doctor-in a a enfiel a inthawka thil pawimaw hmusuok a tum tlangpuihai chu:-
1. A tuortu zamaw hamda (hymen) a tler tah am, a tler a ni chun a tler chu a thar am a nih, hun sawt tak tah a inthawka tler tah ti hrietfie a tum hlak. Nuhmei kha pasal in a lo pawl ta hlak a ni phawt chun , a zamaw hamda ei hril hi pasal ser nuhmei zamaw ah a lut ngei tah a nih ti hrietna dinga thil thangkai tak a nih.
2. A tuortu zamaw sunga pasal baw a um le um naw hriet tum a ni hlak. Hi thil a hin doctor-in nuhmei zamaw sunga tuihnang umhai kha a siekdawk a, laboratory-ah pasal baw a um le um naw enfel dingin a thawn hlak.
Hienghai bakah khawm hin a tul dan azir ang peiin enfelna sin a thaw hlak. Pawngsuol chungchang a ei bengvar nawk zuol theina dinga a tlawm a zawng ei hung tarlang a nih a. Hril ding tam tak a um. Hun phawt sien.
Police le Court a tlunglo a sungkuo inbiekrem le hmingsiet le muolpho inlau le tina leia sunghai hril ngamlo khawm mi tamtak an um ngei ring a um. A ieng po khawm lo ni tah sien, mawlna le dan hriet nawna leia hi thil hi rem el thei lo ni khawmin an lang. Khawvel I phur suok, ti hi mi thenkhat chun in thiem chawpnain an hmang rawp hlak. Hurna lakah insum theina tlaksamna lei, Mihriem dan le Pathien dan ei hriet tawk naw lei chu la ni ngei a tih. Dan ei hriet a thuneituhai kuoma ei intlun a hma ei lak zat zat pei phawt a ni chun iemani chen a chu hung thangkai ngei a tih. Hiengang tuoksuol tuok hai khawm hi mipuiin ei lunginsiet a, an hmingsietna ding le an dam lai ni a rinum an ti ding ngaituoin ei enkawl thiem an ngai hle. Chu ruol ruol chun an hming sietna ding lakah hril le thaw ding awm chin tawk mipui khawma ei hriet a ngai hle. Insukhmingsietna/Defamation Case in file khum let nawk thei dan khawm a um nawk thei pei a nih, ti hi hriet a tha hle bawk. Ei Hnam dan hai khawm hi suk khir met chu a ngaiin, a hun ta hlein an lang. Sawrkarpa khawma Customary Law hi a pawm si a.
Chun, Kohran hai khawma Pathien-in Sex hmang dan ding a a ti dan tak Subject a siem a, Kristien Thalai, Tleirawl le Naupanghai laia pawisa hmuna ding amani ngaituo a Seminar le Workshop el nilova Christian Sex Education a hranpa taka Lession ei nei pui a, ei Inchuktir hi a hun ta hle naw maw? Concordia Sex Education Series. Concordia Publishing House, Saint Louis, London kut suok le USA a an siem, I Wonder, I Wonder, by Marguerite Kurth Frey, for kindergarten through grade 3; Wonderfully Made, by Ruth Stevenson Hummel, for grade 4 through 6; Life Can Be Sexual, by Elmer N. Witt, for high school; Christian Conversation About Sex, by Erwin J. Kolb, for parents; and Christian View of Sex Education, by Martin Wessler, for pastors, teachers, youth workers, and parish planners.Take The High Road, by A.J. Bueltmann & W.J. Fields hai ang dam hi ngaituo dan um ve thei sien. A ho naw a, a mak bawk nawh. Kohran haiin Library siem a Lekhabu tha ei member Thalai le Naupanghai tiem ding ei ngaituo ve ta dam hi a hun ta hle naw maw? Ei ngaisang em em sapram a hai chun an thaw hlak. Rawngbawlna pawimaw tak a nih ti an hriet hle. Pathien-in mihriemhai a mi siem dan tak le Sex chungchang a khawm nisien a member hai Pathien thil tum hrilhriet hi Kohran mawphurna a nih.
“… mi felnawhai chun Pathien ram hluo naw ni hai ti in hriet naw am a nih? Hlemin um naw ro; indithmanghai amanih, milim betuhai amanih, uirehai amanih, mihurhai amanih, mawngkawhurhai amanih, inruhmanghai amanih, mi duamhai amanih, zu inruihmanghai amanih, inhalhmanghai amanih, hlepruhmanghaiin amanih Pathien ram hluo naw ni hai.”
-I Korinth 6:9-10 (BSI Version)
Tulai khawvel ah pawngsuol/nunrawngna pawngsuol (rape/sex violence) leia khawtlang le sungkuo buoina a tam sawt nuom em em a. Sawrkar khawma zuk thaw dan rak a hriet naw chu ni ngei a tih. Hi thil hi a tlung inzawm deu zut zing a. Khawvel hin pawngsuol a hmelhrietna hi a sawt ta hle. Pawngsuol dit naw a lamhraw le lungawinawna hmun hran hran ah inlangtir ni hlak de sienla khawm, hi kawng a suolna hin kiem tieng a pan tak tak thei chuong der nawh a, a pung tiel tiel tho lem niin an lang.
Hi chungchang a hin inselna (debate) nasa tak tak nei a lo ni hiel rawp ta hlak a. Amiruokchu, an thil hmusuok chieng em em el chu, “suktlawm thei a ni nawh”, ti hih a ni tawp el a nih! Rawtna an siem suok chu, “pawngsuoltu chu a tilmu at thlak (pei hawn) ding tih a nih. Pawngsuoltu a intum ringawt khawm nisienla, hi rawtna ang hin a chungah dan kengkaw nisien”, ti a nih. Chu chun umzie a nei tak tak thei chuong a ringum nawh, ti an hmusuok lawk nghal ang reng lawi bawk si!
Hienglai zing hin pawngsuol chungchanga ei lungril a thil um hi ei siem that phawt a ngai a nih, ti hi ngaidan um chu a nih. Nuhmei tam tak hai chun pawngsuol hi tharum thawna sul a nih, sex ti lo a chun (rape is a crime of violence, not sex) ti ngaidan an nei a. Sienkhawm, hi hih ngaidan fumfe nei lo niin hril a ni tho tho. Pawngsuolna hi sex hmang chakna leia hung um a ni a, hieng tiengpang ngaituo lo tading chun pawngsuol hi a tlung ngai zen zen nawh ni a hril a nih.
Mi thenkhat chun rannung le ramsa hai lai pawngsuol a um ve nawh an ti hlak a, a san chu sex chungchang ah sielethahrietna an nei naw lei niin an ngai. Chuonglaizing chun, mihriem chun sielethahrietna ei nei leiin pawngsuolna hi theida a um a, ei dit naw a, ei khawtlang a hin ei pawmnaw hulhuol el a nih tak.
A iengpo khawm lo nisien, tulai hin India ram hmun tum tum le eini lai ngei khawm pawngsuol tuok nuhmei an tam sawt nuom tah hle el! Nuhmei chau ni lovin pasal naupang chenin hmun thenkhat a lem chu hiengang tuok suol hi an lo tuok ta hlak bawk! Mitin ei fimkhur nawk zuol a, hi chungchang a hin Dan (Law/Indian Penal Code) iengang am a um a, ti ei hriet a pawimaw ta hle. Kumtlinglo le Thalai hai lai a hluor zuol bik a. Chuleiin, Mitin le nu-le-pa hai ei fimkhur nawk zuol a ngai ta hle.
Pawngsuol chu India ram dan-in ieng ti’n am a mi hril a? Hremna dan a um am?: Section 376 of Indian Penal Code (IPC) a ei hmu thei chu, mi tukhawm nuhmei pawngsuol (rape) chu damsung lungin intang an naw khawma kum 10 (sawm) chen intang bakah pawisa in chawi (fine) tir thei a nih. Section 375 of IPC a ei hmu angin a hnuoia kawng 6 (ruk) laia pakhat tak chauh khawm nisien, hmanga pasalin nuhmei a pawl/a pawl tum a ni phawt chun PAWNGSUOL (RAPE) a ngai a nih:
1. A nuom naw sasa a a pawllui a ni chun
2. A remtina khawm nilova a pawllui chun
3. A remtina khawm lo ni ta ang sien, kha a remtina tak kha thi/na tuor inlauna lei/a ngainat miin natuor an lau leia lo ni chun
4. A remtina khawm nisien, pasalin a pasal an nawh ti a hriet a, nuhmei chun pasal chu a pasal ngei ni a a hriet lei a remti a ni chun
5. A remtina khawm nisien pasal-in inruithei thil/sielethahrietna sukkhawhlo thei thil a pek leia nikhawhrelo le inrui a a um laia a remti pek a ni chun
6. A remtina khawm nisien ama chu Kum 16 neka naupang a ni chun. (Manipur a chun Kum 14). Amiruokchu, nuhmei kha a nuhmei a nih a, kum 15 chungtieng a ni bakah a nuhmeiin a remti le nuomna lei a ni chun ‘pawngsuol’ (Rape) a tiem an nawh. (Manipur a chun Kum 13).
Chun, mani nuhmeihai khawm nisien an nuomnaw sasa a pawllui a ni phawt phawt chun “pawngsuol” (Rape) a ni tho. Chun, pawngsuol hei ti hin a hun sung sawt le sawt naw an ang vawng a, a lut le lut naw thu an nawh a, lut chie naw sienkhawm pasal zamaw khan nuhmei zamaw a tawk met phawt chun Pawngsuol/Rape a nih.
Chun, Pawngsuol/Rape tlinglo a inlang le mi tamtak ngai a pawngsuol a ngailo, tumna (Attemp to rape) a ni ta hrim hrim chun Pawngsuol/Rape hremna dan a chunga ei ziek chanve a hrem ding a nih. Chun, Tumna/Attempt tlinglo khawm nuhmei nina suk hmingsie/suk muolphona (Outrage to modesty of women) a ni phawt phawt chun Section 354 of IPC dungzui a Kum 2 chen Lungin a intang le sum inchawi (fine) tir thei a nih a, a zat ding ruok chu Judge thutlukna ah an nghat thung. Hi hin nuhmei mawinaw taka biek, sai, khekkhum nuomna le a dang dang hai a huom sa vawng. Mawlna leiin mi tamtakin nuhmeihai chungah hiengang thil hi ei ching rawp hlak. Bansan nghal hmak chi a nih.
Inruina lei suonlam hi Dan in a pawm am?: Mithenkhat chun nuhmei an suollui/pawi an tawkin “Ka’nrui lei a nih” ti hi suonlam a ni rawp hlak a. Zu/damdawi amanih an hei inrui hin iengkim thaw thieng/thiemchang theina ding remchanga hmang thei ding ah an ngai hlak. Chuchu, a lo ni der nawh. Section 85 of IPC a ei hmu thei chu, inrui lai (at the time of doing it, is by reason of intoxication) a thilthaw a ni vei chun a thilthaw kha thu tling ah ngai a ni naw hrim a, sielethahrietna inhmang rawt khawp (incapable of knowing the nature of the act, or that he is doing what is either wrong or contrary to law) an ni chun. Amiruokchu, suk inruitu (Zu. Damdawi, a dang dang) kha ama nuom thu le hrietna nilo a in dawn/fak tir a ni ding a nih. (The thing which intoxicated him was administered to him without his knowledge or against his will) ti a nih. Hiengang hi Dan a lo nisi leiin, “Inrui lei” ti hi suonlam a hmang hih thil harsa le thil theilo tluk a nih. Section 85 of IPC in a mi hril nawk chu, “Inrui” hi Politics, Thlarau, Motor inrui a huom nawh. A suk inruitu kha Zu, Damdawi (Drugs), a dang dang a ni ding a nih.
Entirna’n- Mr. Mawla hi a tulna leiin Doctor-in damdawi an lo inchaw (Prescribe) ang takin a fak a/a lo hriet suol pal hlau leiin Doctor ti naw angin a lo fak pal a/ a nuom thu nilovin midangin inruithei thil an lo in fak tir/dawn lui tir a/a hriet lovin a fak/dawn ding ah an lo pawl a. Mr. Mawla chun sielethahrietna in hmang khawpin lo mumal lovin an rui el tah a. Chulaitak chun a hmangai em em el a nau neisun/midang theidana a nei derlo a lo sukhlum/pawi a lo tawk el a. Hi thil a hin chu Mr. Mawla hi Dan-in a ngaidam thei chau a nih. Amiruokchu, Mr. Mawla khan ama nuomthu/inruithei a nih ti a hriet zing sain a lo fak/dawn a ni chun iengang ngirhmuna um khawm nisien a thilthaw suol kha Dan-in a ngaidam thei nawh. (Hi hih hriet zing ding a nih).
In Pawngsuolna remchang lakah him thei dan ding ieng am a um a?:
1. Pasal hmel hrietlo lakah fimkhur ding. A fala umpui lek lem chu thaw derlo ding a nih. Ei hmelhriet an ni leiin an ringumin an lungril a thienghlim ding a ngai el ding an naw bawk.
2. Thuomhnaw inlang sexy taluo hak ngailo hi a him. Thuomhnaw hak tam tak hi chu pasal lungril thuoisuol a, ngaituona la peng thei an nih rawp hlak. Umna hmun I zir a in thuom dan hriet a pawimaw tak zet.
3. Inzin suokna dingah nuhmeihai tadi’n kekawr tluon inlang pawnlang le lerlo bun rawp a tha. Taksa pienzie inlang/suklang rak khawp a inthuom le inchei ngai ding an nawh.
4. Ram/hmun thenkhat haiah chun nuhmei sinthaw a suok an tam a, mani invengna (self defence) a di’n hmangruo iengamani an kawl tlangpui hlak. Hi hi ei entawn a lo ni naw khawmin a thei hram chun lungril nei ran a um a tha.
5. Eini tlangmi hai hi zan programme nei uor tak el ei nih a. Chuleiin, nuhmei hai tadi’n mani chauh a suok lo a him tak. Fimkhur taka fena ding izir a kawppui/fepui nei a tha.
6. Nu-le-pa’n ei naupa/naunu hai zanah khawm, sunah khawm an phak chin hriet a pawimaw. An umna chin ei hriet naw a nih chun an chungah ieng am a tlung ti chenin ei hriet nawh ti na a nih.
7. Film thalo lakah inthlierfihlim a tha ei ti ruolruolin film hai hi inzirtirna dinga ei hmang thei chun a pawimaw ve hle tho bawk.
8. Inruithei, Mobile phone, Computer le Internet (Social Networking…) hmang suolna leia ra suok khawm a tam tah hle. Chuleiin, Nu-le-pa’n mani nauhai Biekin an in khawm/Sunday skul an kai lei el a ngai suk tha rak ding an chuong nawh. An thil tlai/them kha check pek rawp hlak ding a nih. Sungkuo kim a Mobile phone nei khawm hi a tul kher am? Ieng am a ra suok thei ding (?) ti ngaituo a hun ta hle.
9. Tisa chakna suksuok thei music, thu-le-hla ngaithlak rawn, lekhabu pawrche tiem rawn le milim pawrche en rawnna lakah mitin insukfihlim thei dan umsun chu hieng hai hi ngaisaklo le ditlo le tawklo hi a ni tak el awm. A him thlak tak bawk.
10. Mihriem ser le ser a inpawlna lo khawm sex chi tum tum a um! Thlalak/milim pawche en, Infawp, Inkuo, inthem, intuoi, inzut, tawngkam, phone text message, internet/social networking, facebook… Sex hi chi hran hran laiah hiengang khawm hi mithiem suisuoktu hai chun an tiem sa vawng a nih. Fimkhurna ding a tam ngei el… Tisa chakna suksuok thei an lo ni vawng si nghal a.
11. Vairam a um nuhmei sinthawna a inthawka zan sawt hnung a in tieng inlawi hlak hai khawm motor chuonglai zingin an khat tawk a phakna chin chin, inzing ut a driver le motor a chuong dang hai hriet ding ngei a phone a mi hril a tha. Hi hin hiengang tuoksuol theina lakah nasatakin a san him thei. Mi biek tehlem khawm insir a, phakna le tlungna hmun hril hin vairama in pawngsuolna nuhmei zan sawt tak tak hnung a, in inlawi hlak le taxi hire fawm a in lawn rawp tading chun a him thlak vieu a nih ti hriet tlat ding a nih.
Nuhmei lakah nunrawngna pawngsuol chungchang a hriet ding pawimaw zuol: A report hnung le Doctor-in medical examination a nei hnungah, police-in tul a ti chun a thuomhnaw hak lai chu thlakin an man tir ding a nih.
Pawngsuol thubuoi a chun a tuortu nuhmei kikawrte, pawngsuol a ni laia a bun kha thil pawimaw tak a nih. A pawimaw leiin police ha’n an man a, court ah an thawn hlak. A tuortu kekawrte a inthawka thil hmusuok thei le hriet thei tlangpuihai chu hienghai hi an nih:
1. Nuhmei-in a nuomnaw sa, nasa taka an tal, a tha hratnain a tlin naw leia, thawluina hmanga kekawrte chu keithlak le hlip pek a ni hlak leiin a tler hlak. A tler chun a nuhmeinu nuomna le phalna thang lova hlip a nih, ti an entir.
2. Kekawrte ah chun pasal baw a kai el thei a.A lo kai a ni chun, a pawngsuoltuin a pawngsuol laiin amani a pawl laiin amani a suk kai a ni thei a tih ti an entir bawk. Hi chungchang thuah, police ringawtin kekawrte a thil kai kha pasal baw ani le ni naw an hril thei nawh. Chu kekawrte chu an man hnung ah pasal baw a ni le ni naw enfel dingin doctor kuomah an thawn hlak. Chuchu dan ang taka inhekna dinga pawimaw a nih.
3. Kekawrte-ah chun thisen a kai a nih chun, a tuortu nuhmei chun a zamaw sungah amani, a puotieng amani hliem a tuor a nih ti an entir thei. Thenkhata chun thlatin thi nei leia kai khawm a ni thei bawk.
A chunga ei hrilhai khi an hmang nawna dingin police kuoma report pek le doctor a exam hmain kekawrte chu sawp lo ding a nih. Pawngsuol tuok hun laia thuomhnaw hai hrim hrim sawp, denghawn, rawhmang le sukhmang ding an nawh. Case siem tum si chun a mihriem khawm doctor en hma chu insil-insawp lo ding a nih. Pang a thil kawp hai hrim hrim kha sukchiengtu a ni hlak si a.
Pawngsuol thubuoi a chun a tuortu zamaw le thil danghai doctor-in medical examination an nei hlak hi thil pawimaw em em a nih. Chuleiin, doctor tukhawm medical examination pawngsuol thubuoia neituhai reng rengin, a awlsam zawngin thil an thaw mei mei ding a ni naw a, fimkhur le uluk takin a tul dan azirin Laboratory, X-Ray le tul dang dang hmangin an thaw hlak ding a nih.
Pawngsuol tuortu zamaw doctor-in a a enfiel a inthawka thil pawimaw hmusuok a tum tlangpuihai chu:-
1. A tuortu zamaw hamda (hymen) a tler tah am, a tler a ni chun a tler chu a thar am a nih, hun sawt tak tah a inthawka tler tah ti hrietfie a tum hlak. Nuhmei kha pasal in a lo pawl ta hlak a ni phawt chun , a zamaw hamda ei hril hi pasal ser nuhmei zamaw ah a lut ngei tah a nih ti hrietna dinga thil thangkai tak a nih.
2. A tuortu zamaw sunga pasal baw a um le um naw hriet tum a ni hlak. Hi thil a hin doctor-in nuhmei zamaw sunga tuihnang umhai kha a siekdawk a, laboratory-ah pasal baw a um le um naw enfel dingin a thawn hlak.
Hienghai bakah khawm hin a tul dan azir ang peiin enfelna sin a thaw hlak. Pawngsuol chungchang a ei bengvar nawk zuol theina dinga a tlawm a zawng ei hung tarlang a nih a. Hril ding tam tak a um. Hun phawt sien.
Police le Court a tlunglo a sungkuo inbiekrem le hmingsiet le muolpho inlau le tina leia sunghai hril ngamlo khawm mi tamtak an um ngei ring a um. A ieng po khawm lo ni tah sien, mawlna le dan hriet nawna leia hi thil hi rem el thei lo ni khawmin an lang. Khawvel I phur suok, ti hi mi thenkhat chun in thiem chawpnain an hmang rawp hlak. Hurna lakah insum theina tlaksamna lei, Mihriem dan le Pathien dan ei hriet tawk naw lei chu la ni ngei a tih. Dan ei hriet a thuneituhai kuoma ei intlun a hma ei lak zat zat pei phawt a ni chun iemani chen a chu hung thangkai ngei a tih. Hiengang tuoksuol tuok hai khawm hi mipuiin ei lunginsiet a, an hmingsietna ding le an dam lai ni a rinum an ti ding ngaituoin ei enkawl thiem an ngai hle. Chu ruol ruol chun an hming sietna ding lakah hril le thaw ding awm chin tawk mipui khawma ei hriet a ngai hle. Insukhmingsietna/Defamation Case in file khum let nawk thei dan khawm a um nawk thei pei a nih, ti hi hriet a tha hle bawk. Ei Hnam dan hai khawm hi suk khir met chu a ngaiin, a hun ta hlein an lang. Sawrkarpa khawma Customary Law hi a pawm si a.
Chun, Kohran hai khawma Pathien-in Sex hmang dan ding a a ti dan tak Subject a siem a, Kristien Thalai, Tleirawl le Naupanghai laia pawisa hmuna ding amani ngaituo a Seminar le Workshop el nilova Christian Sex Education a hranpa taka Lession ei nei pui a, ei Inchuktir hi a hun ta hle naw maw? Concordia Sex Education Series. Concordia Publishing House, Saint Louis, London kut suok le USA a an siem, I Wonder, I Wonder, by Marguerite Kurth Frey, for kindergarten through grade 3; Wonderfully Made, by Ruth Stevenson Hummel, for grade 4 through 6; Life Can Be Sexual, by Elmer N. Witt, for high school; Christian Conversation About Sex, by Erwin J. Kolb, for parents; and Christian View of Sex Education, by Martin Wessler, for pastors, teachers, youth workers, and parish planners.Take The High Road, by A.J. Bueltmann & W.J. Fields hai ang dam hi ngaituo dan um ve thei sien. A ho naw a, a mak bawk nawh. Kohran haiin Library siem a Lekhabu tha ei member Thalai le Naupanghai tiem ding ei ngaituo ve ta dam hi a hun ta hle naw maw? Ei ngaisang em em sapram a hai chun an thaw hlak. Rawngbawlna pawimaw tak a nih ti an hriet hle. Pathien-in mihriemhai a mi siem dan tak le Sex chungchang a khawm nisien a member hai Pathien thil tum hrilhriet hi Kohran mawphurna a nih.
“… mi felnawhai chun Pathien ram hluo naw ni hai ti in hriet naw am a nih? Hlemin um naw ro; indithmanghai amanih, milim betuhai amanih, uirehai amanih, mihurhai amanih, mawngkawhurhai amanih, inruhmanghai amanih, mi duamhai amanih, zu inruihmanghai amanih, inhalhmanghai amanih, hlepruhmanghaiin amanih Pathien ram hluo naw ni hai.”
-I Korinth 6:9-10 (BSI Version)
